It all began in the summer of 2022, when our mutual friends decided to play matchmaker. Frim, known for his confidence and independence, wasn’t usually the type to entertain matchmaking. After all, he believed he could find the right person on his own. Stella, on the other hand, had just started her career and hadn’t been in the dating scene for quite some time.

Our friends were convinced we’d be perfect for each other, so they shared pictures, and to everyone’s surprise, we were both open to giving it a shot. Frim got Stella’s number and called her the very next night. That first call was nothing short of magical—filled with laughter and deep, meaningful conversations. It felt as though we had known each other for years.

In typical Frim fashion, he decided to test Stella early on. He pretended to have a very low-level job, curious to see if she cared about status or money. Stella’s response? She didn’t bat an eye, brushing it off with, “It’s not like I’m marrying the guy anyway.” Little did she know that moment would set the foundation for what was to come.

Frim was immediately impressed and couldn’t resist calling Stella again the next day. What followed were nightly phone calls that stretched into the early hours of the morning. Even during Frim’s long drives to and from New Jersey one weekend, we stayed on the phone, sharing stories, dreams, and laughter. After two weeks of talking every day, Frim finally asked Stella out on a date.

We met at an Afro-Reggae lounge in Woodbridge. To our surprise, the place was completely empty—just the owners, dim lights, and a romantic atmosphere. At one point, a song played in the background with the lyrics, “You’re the only one for me.” It was so hilariously cheesy and coincidental that we couldn’t stop laughing. Yet, in that moment, it felt as if the universe was nudging us toward something greater.

Despite the unexpected setting, the night was perfect. We talked, we laughed, and we connected deeply. By the end of the evening, Frim stole a kiss—something Stella definitely hadn’t planned for on the first date!

But as the days turned into weeks, we both knew that this connection wasn’t something to take lightly. While our hearts were saying yes, we wanted to be sure it was aligned with God’s will for our lives. We decided to fast and pray together many times, seeking clarity and guidance. Those moments of shared faith brought us even closer, confirming that this relationship was not just our choice but a divine blessing.